有時候，不要去審判別人的一切，因為聽到的那人會默默的難過，也失去了當初的那顆積極追求的心。說的人總是忘了自己也常做錯，當加入是非談話的那刻，也不記得當初的自己曾經是那麼的受傷，別人的笑話建立在自己的痛苦上，腦袋回轉地都是那些無知的批評和玩笑。不應該忘記如何了解別人的感受，或許以前，之後，甚至是現在會發生在自己的身上。生活少不了摩擦，因為人與人之間多了猜測，缺少了包容，忍耐，寬恕，了解~就算知道自己是吃虧的那一人，也沒關係呀，計較對自己和他們都沒任何好處，心里只多了一根刺，觸碰到的時候會很疼的。為他們祈禱，自己冷靜看一看，情況就會不同，自己的情緒控制因此而改變，別人看了，會有意想不到的發現。不要審判，明知道會傷害別人，明知道結果不是好的，又何必在別人傷口撒上鹽巴呢？或許安靜的，或者嘗試去了解和等待，幫助他，用一顆真誠的心去接近他,難道這也算損失嗎？相反的，你會因為有賺才會去傷害他嗎？

I reached here!

finally i arrived taiwan,i still suspicious where am i  located now although it already passed a few weeks.every morning i woke up,i thought i still trap in a dream.but its not,i was standing in taiwan right now.time passed    one day by one day,it cant be said i hav been adapt the environment here,sometimes i will hav homesick feeling.The feeling for first day even worst...now i so glad and thanks giving for having three friendly and hospitable roomates in my life.uni's life is nt the way of life of we imagined and expected before,there was a lot of things i need to learn them independently.bt indeed i enjoy this life.i saw  different things,i ate different food,i knew different ppl.i hav work hard for this four years,i dont want to waste it,i dont want failed my family,my friends ,and those who support me always.there was  fascinating learning in school i desired to get it more and even more.i need to improve lot since the first day i stepped in school,i had done many fault,i should be smart to face everything.probably it will make me stronger for handling trivial troubles and inspire me.dont worry ,i m fine,it will be alright.that s great,happy and challenging!!

Time is going nearest,it is time for me to start a journey after passed a few obstacles.at the beginning,i get lost but finally i get out from the forest and fortunate LORD help me found a road.thank giving for everything and everyone.all of that made me grow up and realize that it is just a small part of my life,i hav to work hard more of it.although they cant agree perfectly what i am doing,it require time to prove it. challenges continuously came towards me and i hav to be tough enough,i should be stonger.i dont think i will lose comparing with boy, unless i no work hard on it.just a few days more,i hav to adapt a new environment,i know this is not same in malaysia anymore,that is a new country for me to explore.fear and worrying by my side,but i trust my God,it will be okay and fine.God always give me the things that is out of my expectation,including my future.actually i do not knew why i still determined to study overseas,i hav many problems to stop me go in front,but i pray i passed it to God,in the end ,trouble became nothing.lastly i hav made it as my decison,make me suprise.others may not know,but i know,that is true.everyone beside me throw me a question,why!why!and why~~indeed i also dont know what is the reason.i just waiting.life actually is no planning and guessing,whatever how smart u are,and u never know what is the next step.i hav courage that exceed my own brave,i never expect it ,until now i still think it as a miracle.this is thankgiving from my GOD.blue sky is waiting for me,i can do it,with my LORD.not temporary,is eternity.God bless u and me=)